Friday, June 11, 2010

Dating: Lessons In Love

Are you over a appear out in your boyfriend/girlfriend? Have you been single in your while? Have you somebody in mind who you want to go over a date with? A few many years ago I concept that I knew what my ideal partner or girlfriend would appear and be like. I was however about to find out a quite valuable lesson of which I'll write about in this article.

I am quite short in your male and often prefer to date women who are tiny than I am. This however counts quite a lot of them out. I also like women who are quite down to earth and who are quite relaxed about life, not too into themselves for example. I also prefer them being brunette with a nice smile and attractive eyes, a slim figure would also be a bonus.

What I have just described is what I believed being my perfect girlfriend. This whole concept was blown out in the water close to ten many years when I had to work over a project at work with a woman referred to as Sam. She was about ten many years older than I was and I'll in no way forget what my very first impressions of her were. What a mess, I thought. She had created no effort with her appearance, had not even brushed her hair it seemed, she dressed as if she was twenty many years older than she truly was and basically looked like she had not slept the night before.

This might appear quite cruel and harsh, that is what I applied being like back then, I am ashamed to consider how my mind applied to work. I am content however that I have now changed being what I hope is often a nicer person.

Despite these very first impressions I must say that Sam was so nice and helpful to me over the next three months. She is probably 1 in the kindest and purest folks I have ever met.

After about ten weeks of very first meeting Sam, I began to dream about her and I believe I fell in love with her. She had not suddenly created an effort with her appearance, nonetheless looked a mess etc. The simple fact was it did not matter to me anymore, it was what was in the that counted.

I in no way ever admitted to Sam how I felt as she was married, I believe her husband is 1 in the luckiest men alive.

Thanks Sam for teaching me a quite significant lesson in love.


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